Agree with your assessment. On the " penis gallery" situation. When I was younger and overcoming trauma, the freeze situation happened a lot in the face of a predatory situations. It's a nervous system response... flight fight freeze. These days I have zero tolerance for the tinest predatory behavior. It's worth the cost of an Uber to remove yourself asap. Also, you will do the next person a favor by sending the clear and loud message to that gross predatory dude that it's so uncool.
We should also do “dating pet peeves” or awkward first time meeting the family. :)
Agree with your assessment. On the " penis gallery" situation. When I was younger and overcoming trauma, the freeze situation happened a lot in the face of a predatory situations. It's a nervous system response... flight fight freeze. These days I have zero tolerance for the tinest predatory behavior. It's worth the cost of an Uber to remove yourself asap. Also, you will do the next person a favor by sending the clear and loud message to that gross predatory dude that it's so uncool.